So to make a long story short, a bunch of highschool kids, some of them children of friends, have been sneaking out drinking and doing drugs. A few of the parents know, and one told us about it, their kids were involved. I spoke with the parent of one of the other kids, not to get them in trouble mind you, but for a safety reason. Every couple years we end up with a dead kid because of this, and I just hate to see it once again. Now I'm the bad guy, I don't really care but the wife does. Now if my kids were out doing stuff (that we've all probably done) and someone knew and didn't tell me i would be pretty upset, in fact the angry parent has a kid the same age as me, and I wonder if I should continue letting them hang out together. I just don't understand the head in the sand, don't upset the herd mentallity. What say you